How to Unblock Someone on Facebook

Want to unblock someone on Facebook? This guide will show you how to do it.

Once you have logged in to Facebook, click on the small triangleat the top right hand corner of the page and then select the option that says “Privacy Settings.”

Once you have done that, near the bottom of the page, at the right extreme of the area called “Blocked People and Apps,” click on the link that says “Manage Blocking,” pointed by the red arrow in the next image:

On the new page, near the center of the screen, you will see the list of all the users you blocked. In that list, click on the Unblocklink at the right hand side of the user you want to unblock, as shown in the next image:

Facebook will ask you to confirm the action. Just click on the"Confirm" button and the task will be finished.

Once someone is unblocked, this person is able to view your profile and contact you within the restrictions of your privacy settings. If you were friends before the blocking, this connection will not be restored unless a new friend request is sent and accepted. Also keep in mind that, during the next 48 hours after you unblock someone, you cannot block this person again.

Caste System

The Misunderstood and Misused Term of ‘Caste’ System

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Arranged marriage and Divorce rate in India

Arranged marriage and Divorce rate in India

You might have heard this "India has lowest divorce rate" a lot, a lot. In India, marriage is thought to be for life, and the divorce rate is extremely low.
Does that mean that Indian marriages are successful? The honest answer is no, nada, nicht.

Marriage shall be a success, only if the parties involved are happy, shouldnt be based on societal pressure, family pressure.
Parties should be couple, and the byproduct of their relationship the kids, there is no point in calling it as a success if any of these isnt happy.
Indian arranged marriages - marriage between 1000 social entities instead of two souls.

In-laws doesnt need to love the couple, friends doesnt need to love the couple, the society doesnt need to love the couple, the church doesnt need to love the couple to call it a success, the couple need to love each other.

In west,
Divorce rate is inversely proportional to marriage success rate.

Higher divorce rate maybe a bad thing, but you have only one life and you cant sacrifice your happiness and life you deserve to something in black and white.

In east,
Divorce rate is inversely proportional to women suppression.

Higher divorce rate is actually a thing to be welcomed in India because it translates to more freedom and more liberation - more empowerment for women.

Indian Arranged marriage:
Marriage is the debt every kid owes to their Indian parents and procreation is compound interest for the debt they owe to parents.
Marriage is not a choice and partner isnt a choice either.
Many people do the mistake of linking arranged marriage to dating in the west. No, dating and arranged marriage arent same.

Parents dont allow the couple to date unless they are engaged and their marriage date is fixed. That is not courtship or dating, that is visiting your future spouse in front of vigilante. And there is no option of calling it off by the couple, only parents hold the rights, could be pennyshort in dowry or wrong color chosen for the father-in-law or missing pearl in mother-in-law's gift.

Dating: You date a person and you marry that person.

You create your profile, you choose your partner or prospect based on height, weight, compatibility, interests and hobbies and your choose based on what you need and what would make you happy.
You date for a while and if it works out, you declare yourself as a couple after a while in papers and go on and if it turns sour you try to work it out, and if it fails, you separate in a very civilised manner.


Arranged marriage: A family rates you and you are married to that family.

Your parents create your profile or type your biodata and circulate the same, and partner is chosen based on caste, religion, horoscope, family background, profession of parents and assests parents own.
And agreeable terms right from dowry, who gets what after parent's demise, and what is expected from the bride, some cultures shall conduct the bride interview and rate her based on the way she walks, sing, and dance, and play instrument and hair texture, skin tone and all such. The bridegroom maynt have a say in that.

It is pathetic and humiliating and especially to the to-be-bride.

And non-virgin brides and divorcees and widows are total outcasts, they cant even have traditional wedding, forget that they shall not be allowed to attend any traditional wedding. But this isnt applicable to the men - widowers or divorced men or even diseased men - herpes infected men arent quarantined.

True story :
Mine is a love marriage yet my father-in-law asked my parents to plan for wedding in the month of June, because he wanted our kids to be born around school year so that no intermediate month is wasted. Did I blew you away?
For a while he used to dictate via phone the menu for the whole week I need to cook. And around thursday he would send me mail with plans and schedule for me to follow for the following weekend. No, I wasnt born in 40s, 50s, 60s or 70s.
Let me stop here, or else my kids may never even get a date for being born to Indian parents. No, I dont have stash in my basement or menu box instead of recipe box for my future daughters-in-law :)

Taboo with divorce :
I would like to sugarcoat and say the parties stay together because they have high moral standards or they are committed or they stay together for the kids. But I would be lying. Based on several incidents I had seen and had to endure, I can honestly say that is the mask used to inject and infect with guilt.

Divorce could be due to anything, yet it would normally be seen as failure on the parent part (ie in-laws), so no parent would encourage that, instead they would want their kids to endure the pain and suffering. They would force them to stay together. And many couple stay together and dont break their marriage instead their spew their hatred and frustration on their kids and gossip and hate people.

First, divorcees are looked down upon, grass widows are spewed with more hatred than widows. Any widow (grass widow or widow) trying to get on with life and looking for another partner is seen and labelled as a amorist.
Sorry for the blunt usuage of words but that is the raw truth.

And all the more, kids of divorced parents become unsellable in marriage trade too. Not just kids, even the siblings.

So, just like the pressure from all sides to marry the chosen partner, the same forces shall put same pressure on the then married couple to stay together even if they cant stand each other.


Men in arranged marriage:
Men arent given complete free ticket either. Divorced men, widower may have little trouble settling for a woman without a compromise.
Indian Men - the chief commodity in the marriage trade. One other reason why Indian men dont go for creative jobs and they arent allowed to pursue what interests them. They become unsellable in the trade.
A musician or an athlete maynt be allowed to pursue his career in those fields, because in case he doesnt become a cricket player - the only successful profession for athletes in India, or a movie music composer, there is no future and the parents maynt be able to find a partner for them.
And even scientists, no scope for them, finding prospects for them is a huge deal. An ISRO scientist looses his in auction with doctors and engineers.


MORAL OF THE STORY:

1. Non-divorced Indian marriages arent happily ever after.
2. Divorce is not failure of marriage same way non-divorce isnt success either.

Marrying a log handpicked by parents and to feel proud your manhood by axeing the log? Tying a knot on the punchbag and claiming your adulthood by punching that often?
Marrying a virgin muted cindrella babymaker who cant spell isnt a challenge and that isnt life.

Letting your parents pick your partner? Do you think with your ...?

Your silver, golden, diamond jubilee is a thing of shame. Celebrating your victory as wifebeater and childabuser? Instead of being disgusted, how do you celebrate the suppression and abuse?
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Marrying a woman who can think,
who believes in herself,
who enjoys your companionship,
who can earn her own bread,
is the real challenge and a thing to be proud about. Having life and babies with her completes life.

Sharing and caring responsibility is the attractive thing in a man.

She might have seen many men, yet she chose you and decided to spend her life with you, because you are worth it.

Your silver, golden, diamond jubilee is worth celebrating and deserves a medal for being a good husband, or good father.

Love And Marriage

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?" 

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat 
field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. 

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back 
to pick." 

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, 
but he wonders....maybe there is a bigger one later. 

Then he saw another bigger one... but maybe there is an even bigger 
one waiting for him. 

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to 
realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he 
know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted. 

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher 
told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but 
when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."* 

*"What is marriage then?" the student asked. 

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn 
field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you 
can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick." 

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to 
repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he 
has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the 
teacher. 

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for 
one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best 
one you get.... this is marriage."* 

Difference between PPC and SEO

These following acronyms are probably two of the most important terms in the world of Internet advertising:

PPC and SEO.

First we have PPC. This is also called CPC. This stands for Pay Per Click or Cost Per Click advertising. 

SEO stands for Search Engine Optimization. SEO is the process of building a website that is search engine friendly. 


Search engine friendly means that Google can find your site and once found it will know what the major keyword points you are trying to make. Also it will determine when to show your URL to prospective web surfers based on your keywords. There are many other search engines but Google is largest for the moment so you should optimize your site for them.

If you are a small business person with limited funds which program should you do PPC or SEO? My answer is both.

A PPC program from Overture or Google is a relatively quick traffic generator. You give those companies your keywords and if those keywords have any traffic at all you will get some visitors. This type of program can be up and running within 24 hours. The huge advantage of the PPC program is the uptime speed and quantity of targeted traffic.

The huge downside is cost. PPC programs can get expensive very fast. $0.10 per click doesn't sound expensive until you get 10,000 clicks in a month. That means you just spent $1,000 on that one search term!

A SEO program is extremely slow and very tedious to get going. If you don't know what you are doing it can cost upwards of $3,000 to have your site optimized.

The good news about a SEO program is that you can learn how to optimize your site yourself. It takes trial and error to see what is working. It also takes knowledge of how search engines work to get them going correctly. I personally use LivePerson.com's live chat to watch the search terms for all of my sites in real time. Your server's log files will also help you with your search terms. You can bet your bottom dollar that if you do everything correctly a SEO program will take you 90 days just to start seeing results.

In this case results mean getting targeted traffic. You need to have time and patience to give your SEO program a chance to work.

There is no doubt that for immediate results the PPC route is clearly the way to go. You will get immediate results.

My suggestion is that as soon as you put your first dollar into PPC you should start working on Search Engine Optimization yourself. The reason is 90 to 180 days from now you can stop paying for some of your PPC terms as the search engines natural abilities start indexing and showing your web pages to visitors. You need to force yourself to learn the SEO process. A solid SEO program goes well beyond meta tags these days.

The ultimate goal of advertising is to drive targeted traffic. If you can get SEO targeted traffic vs. PPC targeted traffic then you will place a lot of money on the bottom line of your business. Placing a lot of money on the bottom line is probably the ultimate goal of your business.

Encouragement money for inter-cast marriage

The State Government has doubled the 'encouragement money' given to couples who enter inter-caste marriage. This was informed in a State-level vigilance and monitoring committee meeting held at Mantralaya on Friday.

According to the decision, from now onward any eligible persons of higher castes entering wedlock with a person belonged to Scheduled Castes will be entitled to get Rs 50,000 in place of Rs 25,000 given earlier as 'encouragement money'.

Notably, encouraging inter-caste marriage to stamp out social evil of untouchability, the State Government has been running this scheme since its inception. Earlier Rs 6,000 cash, a citation and to and fro fares were given to the couple for inter caste marriage before the year 2009. However, in 2009 the State Government had hiked the amount to Rs 25,000 with a view to encourage more individuals and to increase awareness about this persisting social evil.

Officials said on the directives of Chief Minister Raman Singh this amount was again increased from June 2011 to its double. Now, any person (boy or girl) belonged higher caste tying nuptial knot with a boy or a girl of the Scheduled Castes will be entitled to get Rs 50,000 as encouragement money.

According to departmental sources, during 2011, at least1261 couples entering inter caste wedlock were given Rs 19.71 lakh as encouragement money by the Government.

In the meeting it was also informed that under the Scheduled Castes and Scheduled Tribes Atrocities Prevention Act 1989, Scheduled Castes and Scheduled Tribes Development department has provided relief amount to the tune of Rs 1.22 crore to 756 applicants during 2009, Rs 1.44 crore assistance to 847 applicants during 2010 and Rs 1.20 crore relief to 572 applicants during 2011.

Besides, circular has already been issued on March 29, 2012 to all the district collectors to ensure payment of travelling allowance, compensation against loss of wage and expenses incurred on food to the victim persons and their dependents or witnesses through special police station or cells established for the purpose.

Understanding Inter Caste Marriage Status of the Children, Married Male, Married Female and Reservation

Understanding Inter Caste Marriage Status of the Children, Married Male, Married Female and Reservation 

Inter-caste marriage is legal in India. Such marriages are sanctioned by the Special Marriage Act 1954 and are also permitted under The Hindu Marriage Act 1955.

But still in India number of inter caste marriages is very less.

India is a country where caste and religion rules not democracy.

I am sure if survey is done Majority Indians will agree that we need more inter caste marriages but in reality they will never allow their own kids to marry inter caste girl.

Today also Indian society does not accept such couples who marry inter caste



Society including family members punishes them.
Every one tries to harass them in every possible way which will make demon will say that I am not bad like these humans.

Society ostracizes and discriminates against couples in inter-caste marriages.

Honor Killing is nothing but a punishment to boy and girl for marrying intercaste.

We need a law which will give death punishment to every person who attends the Khap Panchayats which gives order to kill the boy and girl and kill them.

Supreme Court has ordered the police across the country to take strict action against those resorting to violence against major boys and girls who go for inter-caste or inter-religious marriages.

I did not hear or read that Police has taken action but I read that couples suffering and they got murdered.


We got caste and inside caste we got the sub-caste and inside sub-caste if we find sub-caste do not be surprised.

What happens when two persons belonging to different caste marry each other?

What will be the caste status of their children?

What happens when forward caste male marries to lower caste female?

After marriage will the lower caste female will lose her status of belonging to the SC or ST?

What happens when forward caste female marries to lower caste male?

After marriage will they become eligible to claim reservation?

By marriage do their caste changes?

Now lets us understand the legal position step by step

Case 1 –
Rajendra Shrivastava vs. State of Maharashtra, (2010) 112 Bom LR 762
Decided by Bombay High Court

Issue of the case –

If scheduled caste or a scheduled tribe women marries to forward caste male
In this situation after marriage whether on marriage she ceases to belong to the scheduled caste or the scheduled tribe?"

The full bench of the Bombay High Court decided that -
When a woman born in a scheduled caste or a scheduled tribe marries to a person belonging to a forward caste, her caste by birth does not change by virtue of the marriage.

The label attached to a person born into a scheduled caste or a scheduled tribe continues
notwithstanding the marriage.

Case 2 –
What will happen when a female from forward caste marries to a lower caste male.
Will she become eligible for reservation?

Supreme Court of India has said that candidate who had the advantageous start in life being borne in a forward community and had march of advantageous life but is transplanted in backward class by adoption, marriage or conversion does not become eligible to the benefits of reservation.

Case No. 3 – Intercaste Marriage and Caste of the children

Rameshbhai Dabhai Naika vs State Of Gujarat & Ors. on 18 January, 2012
Bench: Aftab Alam, Ranjana Prakash Desai
IN THE SUPREME COURT OF INDIA - CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION CIVIL APPEAL NO. 654 OF 2012 -- (Arising out of S.L.P (CIVIL) NO.4282 of 2010)

Supreme Court Judgment Said that –

legal position that seems to emerge is that in an inter-caste marriage or a marriage between a tribal and a non-tribal the determination of the caste of the offspring is essentially a question of fact to be decided on the basis of the facts adduced in each case. The determination of caste of a person born of an inter-caste marriage or a marriage between a tribal and a non-tribal cannot be determined in complete disregard of attending facts of the case.

In an inter- caste marriage or a marriage between a tribal and a non-tribal there may be a presumption that the child has the caste of the father.

This presumption may be stronger in the case where in the inter-caste marriage or a marriage between a tribal and a non-tribal the husband belongs to a forward caste.

But by no means the presumption is conclusive or irrebuttable and it is open to the child of such marriage to lead evidence to show that he/she was brought up by the mother who belonged to the scheduled caste/scheduled tribe.

By virtue of being the son of a forward caste father he did not have any advantageous start in life but on the contrary suffered the deprivations, indignities, humilities and handicaps like any other member of the community to which his/her mother belonged.

Additionally, that he was always treated a member of the community to which her mother belonged not only by that community but by people outside the community as well.

In short Supreme Court of India said that
In a marriage between a tribal woman and a forward caste man, the offspring will get tribal status if the child is brought up in the mother's environment and will be entitled to reservation

Bench of Justices Aftab Alam and Ranjana Desai said that
Though earlier judgments of this court said that “in an inter-caste marriage between a tribal woman and a non-tribal, the woman must in all cases take her caste from the husband,” these were not binding precedents.

Now we must ask the questions ?

Why SC or ST female should accept her husband’s caste after marriage?

What ever may be the up bringing of the kids , the children should be given right to decide their own caste after age 18, before 18 mother and father should decide the caste of kids?

Is it not discrimination between the caste?

Does it not prove that husband is God and Forward caste is superior.

After marriage why the caste of husband is not changed?

Irrespective of up bringing the children of intercaste marriage should be given all type of reservations.

This will result in the more intercaste marriages which will help Indian society to become one.


I do not support Religion or Caste based reservations.

I support only Economic reservation.